Parenting Your Adult Child

Parenting doesn't end at 18.Has your haunt not emptied? Has your adult child made lifestyle choices you don't agree with? Has becoming an ...

Parenting Your Adult Children -- Nancy Williams -- 1/2

Moira Brown speaks with Nancy Williams about some guidelines when parenting your adult children. ; Nancy Williams ; Licensed Authoritative ...

Frequently Asked Questions

Are you still parenting your adult children?

My children are in their 30s now, but I still lean to the need to be available and accessible to them if they need me. Mom I'll always and forever.


Once a mom always a mom. This name will never disappear and will be the responsibilities that come with it. Parents give their children roots and wings. Roots to determine where the house and wings to fly.
Gladys | Sep 01, 2009

My daughter is 42 - only a sprog. She left home long ago. I am a mom yet, but it's nice to see that the roles have become interchangeable.
RunaS | Aug 31, 2009



Do you think parents of adult children have selective memory?

I am constantly seeing questions and editorials from parents of adult children. Most of them start with "What is out of sync a go astray with parents these days?". Most of them end with "I never allowed my children to do that." or


Unquestionably, I'm trying to forget the things I wish I hadn't done or failed to do with my grown kids.

As for why they do this, there's All or Nothing idea.

I do know in thinking about my own childhood, that children behaved
Sarah C | Aug 30, 2007

venting? :-)
Gods Child fo Life | Aug 30, 2007



How can we parents with adult children continue to guide them without treating them like children?

When adults penetrate to their parents for advice & help with life's little problems, how can we get ourselves to forget that they are no longer children?

How can we shepherd them towards self-help or finding outside help for those


My children's pater and I were very fortunate our children have made great choices and decisions.
My problem would be they often attempt role U-turn. My son especially, I believe just because of his presumed ideas of lesser competency even totally
June smiles | Feb 06, 2010



If a parent of adult children dies, are children always notified?

If there are 2 adult children living in another burgh, but only one child has kept contact with the parent, will the estranged child necessarily be notified?


No, it is possibly left up to the sibling who has contact to notify the estranged fam.
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How many parents have adult children that they have to take care of?

I am not asking this of adult children that are virtuous not growing up to be on thier own but children that have mental illness problems that prevent them from living on thier own? If you do have a issue (adult) like this please can you tell me some


well some times on the weekends I will go over to this ladies bordello(she's the head nurse of me at a hospital) anyways I go to her house to help her entertain and take nurse of her 32 year old daughter Rachel. Rachel has suffered from a mental infirmity
Grace Emily | May 23, 6687



For adult children: how much do you share with your parents?

I am an adult with a dearest of my own. Lately, I've been wondering if I share too much personal information with my parents, especially my mom. For norm, I think I share too much of my family's financial information with my parents. One thing I'm always


I don't about you can really be true peers with your parents. I'm not trying to be cynical, but peers are people around your age, our parents are commonly older than that. Also parents are parents, and they always see you as their child. That's why a
Jaime | Nov 19, 2008



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